Sunday, February 12, 2006

Till Marriage Do Us Part

I sat down next to S5 and said "So are you gonna tell us or what!?"
She giggled.
And then she said it:
"I'm engaged! I'm getting married!!"
She had the biggest grin on her face and she was glowing.
"No you're not!" I laughed.
"Uhh.. Yeah.. I am."
LuLu and I looked at each other. I swear it was like the world stood still for a minute.
"Wow! Who's the poor guy? When's the big day?"
We bombarded her with questions and talked about everything from the dress to lingerie.

The initial shock has worn off, but.. Wow. I mean, this girl is like a sister to me.
Is everything gonna change?
I'm so happy for her, and I love her like her hell, and I'm so excited and nervous and I don't want anything to change!
She said it wouldn't..
It won't change, right?




Talal said...

let me leave you with this comment.

"We shrink from change; yet is there anything that can come into being without it?" ~Marcus Aurelius

Mochness said...

Witty title, man ;)

Anonymous said...

It shouldn't change unless she wants it to change. If she TRULY feels the same for you as you say you do for her, then why would it? One can be engaged/married and still have their own life and friendships. Have you lost someone in the past because of this?

OzMonsta said...

'It is not the strongest of the species that survives, not the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.' — Charles Darwin

I think things are bound to change, sooner or later, though that need not neccesarily be a bad thing...

You never know, that which haunts you is sometimes your saviour...


Aliya said...

Hate to break it to you girl but things will change eventually. I'm not saying it's going to be a bad change but it will change. I've had friends get married and every single one of them changed in different ways. Some became too busy for a simple talk on the telephone and some couldn't wait to get out of the house. You know, she was "smothered" with affection so she needed some time to herself LOL. But if your close as I think you are with her then, inshallah, things will be just fine :).

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Jo said...

It will.

taqo said... probably wont get to see and talk to her as much. What if she like, wants to see you and her husbands tells her no? That would reeaally suck.

Malik Jeddah said...

It might :S
if u want it to change it will & if u dont it wont

Abu Sinan said...

Everything changes when you get married. If you think it doesnt, then you have never been married!